What Is Tantric Massage?
Tantra massage is offered from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body participates and erogenous zones can also be touched. A tantra massage takes place on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection in between massage giver and receiver.
Tantric Massage is everything about Loving touch
Tantra massage is offered from the heart. Many touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is in fact enjoy that touches. The recipient is also present, and gets active and also feels (ultimately) from the heart.
Loaded with attention and existence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch filled with attention and presence. Both the giver and the receiver are completely present. Do not think of the other day or tomorrow. Do not take a look around or being hectic with something else, no, your full attention is on giving or getting the massage. A very conscious touch from the heart. Receive also extremely purposely, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about routine, fixed patterns are in fact out of the question. Whatever occurs in the minute, completely awareness, lovingly attuned to each other and the scenario. Dreaming away or going to sleep is likewise not intended (still, when that's exactly what you need, it's okay).
A tantric massage isn't about an established result
A tantric massage will constantly be different. You never ever know how it will end up. It is not the strategy or the wanted sequence of rubbing that is necessary, it has to do with what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most require at the moment? What is good for her/him? Love knows exactly what to do, love constantly has an appropriate reaction. Therefore the massage will be exactly that exactly what is required. Sufficient is that the provider exists and keeps tuning in to his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine likewise has its own strategy, you cannot "do" it.
Tantric massages for that reason often take an extremely unexpected course. Everything suits a larger whole. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "fine", ending in bliss. A "stopped working" massage can be the initial step in a great development.
How to get the very best from your tantric massage
Constantly with regard to limitations
We understood it for a very long time, obviously, however because the #MeToo revelations, some things have actually come up on the planet of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who force their own sexual pleasure/lust on "clients". Obviously, this has little to do with tantric massage. The safety of both giver and receiver always should be ensured. Loving attunement always precedes.
Set clear limits in advance
Every individual (other than when you are enlightened) has his limits. This is human and is also necessary (check out the post on securing borders. Think in advance (both as giver and receiver) what your limitations are. Make sure there is a proper intake, and a decent preparation (likewise with your lover/massage partner). Set clear limits ahead of time: about mental borders, as well as take care for clarity about physical boundaries. It is a misunderstanding that a tantric massage must constantly be naked, nonsense. With clothes on is also totally okay (however hard to work with oil then). It is also a mistaken belief that a tantric massage must be concentrated on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), nonsense too. Personally, we have given/received many tantric massages just on the head. In addition, really each cell is sensual, but you will be impressed.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let circulation freely
Triggering and freeing the flow of life energy (prana) is the primary part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erogenous zones can also be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of standard/ sexual/ psychological/ passionate/ love/ creation/ intuitive energy.
Focused on the natural delighted state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is an extremely practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life aimed at growing in love and consciousness. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them.
Normally resulting in a wonderful physical, mental well-being
Tantra helps you to become more relaxed, more vibrant, more energetic, more caring therefore much more. Actually, you "learn" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is also the case with a tantra massage. Because this is precisely what takes place frequently: the recipient is enjoying it! Taking pleasure in is completely enabled! A tantra massage is generally nice, sometimes scrumptious. We, therefore, invite you to totally take pleasure in receiving ánd offering a tantric massage. Feel, use your senses. Hear, odor, taste, feel and reveal that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are lots of kinds of massage. Of course, all massages have particular practices and methods in typical. There is a huge distinction with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (focused on relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Sensual massage (targeted at enjoyment fulfillment).
* (Body) treatment (targeted at healing).
Relaxation is a vital part of tantric massage, but of a completely various order than relaxation massage Why? Well due to the fact that you are actually extremely energetic during/after the massage. You do not fall asleep (unless you are extremely exhausted), you are extremely alert and mindful! A tantra massage is NOT a sensual massage either. If it gets stuck in sexual research or sexual fulfillment, we would call it different. Tantra massage is certainly not a treatment! It's a type of fashion nowadays to see tantra massage as a therapy, but therapy is an occupation apart. Tantra massage definitely has recovery effects, however that is not an end in itself.
The essentials of tantric massage.
For a comprehensive explanation, see the post on the fundamentals of tantric massage. In summary, the following basics stand apart:
Tantra massage pointers-- before you begin
* Develop a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Offer excellent conditions (physically, but likewise psychologically).
* Explain agreements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage pointers-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Make certain your massage is need complimentary, do not press or force anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the entire body.
* Don't only utilize your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Every now and then ... do nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Enjoy!
* Use your senses.
* Offer feedback (pleasure sounds?).
* Integrate in integration (rest) moments.
A tantra massage is not a work job, so as a giver you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Again, do not try to impose anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! You might not be waiting for an emotional cry, but a tantric massage has no objective.
Tantra massage suggestions-- after the massage.
* Take enough time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Take some time to exchange your experiences.
* Realize that a tantric massage can have a result for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do Taatric Massage Kensington not instantly go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage ideas (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a delighted ending massage? Yes it can be, it normally is but there is no pressure for you to perform, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Respect limits, set clear boundaries ahead of time. Our masseuses are mainly extremely open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the dreams of the recipient in mind, obviously. Know that it can turn out differently.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being aroused is regular and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are crucial! A lot can show up.
* Look out to renewed freezing moments. Avoid limitations from being crossed again.
* Step by action ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Beware: no sex! Practice makes ideal. Taking pleasure in the renewed balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Offer feedback (e.g. satisfaction sounds) and provide integration minutes (just doing absolutely nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage occur?
Do not release, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we suggest do not hurry to the climatic ending, hold it, be in the minute, let that sexual energy build and flood your entire body.
Possible results of tantric massage.
Offers peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you from your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and unwinded (but you will not fall asleep). During/after the massage it ends up being peaceful in your head (often completely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of splendidly streaming life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a prospective healing impact. Even though tantra massage is not the exact same as recovery, this release might heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You become more loving, you discover what it resembles to like yourself. You experience that everything, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. And that offers an incredibly liberating and deeply pleased feeling.
Is taking pleasure in.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The mix of relaxation and a lot of energy indicates that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
Simply put, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Full of attention and existence.
* The entire body participates.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without standard type, without predefined result.
* With regard to (mutual) boundaries.
* Establishes a (heart) connection in between the giver and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, thrilled state of being of the recipient.
* Typically leading to a fantastic physical, mental wellness (of both).